In the fast-paced world we live in, it’s easy to overlook what really matters: our personal well-being and the health of our relationships. When it comes to strengthening your connection with yourself or a partner, few things are as powerful as a couples intensive. An intensive is an immersive, focused, and transformative experience designed to create lasting change. Whether you’re looking to improve your own self-esteem, heal from trauma, or deepen your relationship with a partner, an intensive offers the opportunity to reset, reflect, and rebuild.

As the holidays approach, the pressure to pick the “perfect” gift for your partner can feel overwhelming—especially if they’ve explicitly said they don’t want anything. It’s understandable to feel stuck. After all, you want to show them just how much they mean to you, but you also don’t want to overstep their wishes. Here’s how you can handle this tricky situation with love, creativity, and a bit of insight.

The holiday season can often bring out the best in people, but for many couples, it can also reveal cracks that may have been hidden or ignored throughout the year. Financial stress is a major contributor to this, and when money becomes a source of tension, it can create conflict that extends beyond the holidays and into everyday life. If this sounds familiar, you’re not alone—and there’s a way to manage this dynamic, especially with the support of a couples’ relationship intensive.

Infidelity is one of the most painful and challenging experiences a couple can face. It can shatter trust, breed intense emotional pain, and create a sense of betrayal that can feel almost impossible to overcome. Yet, despite the emotional devastation, healing is possible. For couples who are motivated to repair their relationship, the right therapeutic support can make a profound difference.

As a couple’s therapist, I often hear couples ask, “Are we falling out of love?” when they hit a rough patch. Many people experience these feelings during times of growth, but what they don’t realize is that this stage can actually be a normal part of relationship development. It’s rooted in a concept called differentiation, a key component of the Developmental Model of couples therapy, developed by Drs. Ellyn Bader and Peter “Pete” Pearson.

As a couple’s therapist, one of the most delicate times I work with couples is during the holidays. For many, the Christmas season is filled with joy, family gatherings, and cherished traditions. But for those grieving the loss of a loved one, the season can bring overwhelming sadness and a sense of isolation. If your partner has recently lost a family member or is struggling with grief during this time, your relationship can feel strained. But there are ways you can support your partner through this challenging time, and even strengthen your bond in the process.